Saturday, October 11, 2008

A New Season

These days, few things make me quite so excited as the beginning of the NHL regular season. I'm glad to have somewhere to invest my nervous energy and something to follow with interest that has the potential to be quite positive. We decided to go to the opening game of the Hurricanes' '08-'09 season last night, and we were delighted to discover that we could make it to a 7pm weeknight game on time from here when traffic and weather permit, though we plan to do that very seldom indeed. The journey also had the advantage of taking us by a gas station selling 87 for $3.17 per gallon. At home here, it's more like $3.60+ these days, so that was another pleasant surprise.

In other good news, the Hurricanes won, it was the fullest house I have seen in the 11 months I have followed the team and, aside Dan's from missing most of the second period haggling with an RBC Center employee at the ticket window who appeared to be trying to make a spot in the hall of incompetence for herself, we had a nice time and managed to get home before midnight.

As an aside, Dan has decided that earplugs are in order for him at all future games, which was a valuable observation. His hearing has suffered some over the last few months/years, and all of the arena noise is just too much for him, even though there's nothing like a live game and he loves that part. I'm somewhat more compassionate than I might otherwise be to that particular situation because I have a mother with hearing loss whose experience was shared with me some growing up. In fact, I learned enough from mom that I was able to recognize some behavioral signs of Dan's hearing loss before he recognized what was happening and his doctor actually caught the physical fact in testing.

Also aside, a consequence of the ticket window fiasco was that once I went back to the ticket window with Dan to have them fix the overcharge and the wrong seats (among other things), we decided to get some food, and when we headed back to our seats, Senator Elizabeth Dole happened to be right outside the door we needed to go through to get back. She was kind enough to shake our hands and greet us kindly before moving on. It may have been a photo-op, but we had no cameras (only incredibly overpriced Hardee's food) at hand, so you'll just have to take my word on that one.

I'm the last person to find politicians awe-inspiring, but she is a history-maker (the first female senator in NC) and a long-time civil servant who served with five presidents and ran for first lady, so to speak, so given a chance to shake her hand, I will take it.

All in all, it was a fun evening. I'm very grateful for fun times like this one that we get to share. Perhaps it can mark the start of a new season in our lives with more to obviously celebrate... (and I do mean more than just a new NHL season)!

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Ah, yes. Hockey season. We don't have hurricanes here.

I would prefer to be sharing something else with my son in law.

I do understand the earplug need. A lot of noise can drive one crazy. I have had years - maybe 50 - to experience and analyze some of the nuances of hearing loss. I have also appreciated the specialists who have explained to me how my loss affects my reaction to my world (and it to me) and how to compensate more than I already had. You do have to be circumspect to interact in the world anyway - just need to practice more of it when you cannot hear to keep from driving those around you crazy. There is no way hearing people can understand how the loss manifests itself. It is not just in not "hearing" what someone says. And like brain injuries - each hearing loss is unique. Happily, there are a similarities in each type of loss that have allowed research and help.

Oh, my goodness! I see I am on a soapbox. Where did that come from?.

Angie said...

It snuck up on you...you didn't hear it. :D

I love you, Mom :)

Anonymous said...

Angie's response used with permission...

Susan in PA said...

Our church's best musician, staring hearing loss in the 'face'. What a cross. May God grant the grace of still being able to hear the music.
I find that I can't make out spoken word when the TV or traffic is blaring in the background. When I ask the girls to repeat themselves, they reply, "You're not deaf, Dad is." Bob accuses everyone of not speaking up.

Pass the earplugs, and stay your sociable self, Dan.